Frequently Asked Questions about Spirituality & Personal Empowerment

Please find the commonly asked questions by individuals exploring spirituality and personal empowerment.

1. What Is Spirituality?
2. How Do I Work On Myself?
3. How Can I Change My Life and Other People?
4. How Do I Trust Life?
5. How Do I Become More Psychic and Tap Into My Abilities as an Intuitive & Healer?
6. How Do I Know This Feeling About 'What I Want To Be, Do & Experience' Is True?

A: Spirituality is simply knowing yourself on the deepest level. It gives us a purpose and a reason to exist. It enables us to powerfully let go of fear and reach towards love and empowerment. It also enables the ability for correct choices and a loving positive application to life. Unlike a structured religion that dictates 'control', this new way of being is effortless because we are in synch with our emotions, our true selves and our environment.
A spiritual life grants us the ability to 'own' who we are without resistance and without judgment. Only then can we get out of criticising ourselves and reach towards our highest expression and potential. As a result of the transformation we are then empowered to easily adjust those parts of ourselves that aren't creating the realities that we desire.
Our standard society does not supply or teach us such skills, and it is only via a 'know thyself' search that we can truly unlock our greatest love, peace, wisdom and abilities.

A: So many individuals have struggled with this concept because they have only known life as 'something outside of themselves'. In reality we have all been educated to think in codependent ways. We are in a fast moving time, of increased technology and profound society changes. Our world is switching over from an independent production market and 'me versus you' tactics within businesses and homes to one of knowledge, empowerment and interdependence (existing in trust and harmony with others). No longer do individuals in firms and relationships tolerate being treated as 'a number' or 'an object' to gratify another's self serving needs. These old ego based tactics no longer create sustained or positive results. There is a grave need for us to establish healthy trustworthy relationships with other people and our environment. In order to do this it is essential that we develop a healthy and trustworthy inner relationship with ourselves. Spiritual empowerment equates to identifying and understanding our character and making ourselves our most important study in life on a daily on-going basis. Then we can embrace the aspects of ourselves that aren't serving us and change our belief systems and subsequent responses and actions to ones that do create the life we desire. Then life with others and our environment starts to work! There are many resources available today in the marketplace that grant self-knowledge. Many books, seminars, healings, readings and courses provide life-changing liberation. This is an era where a great light has been thrown on the benefits of self-mastery. YOU are the most important person you will ever get to know!! To know a successful life you must know thyself.

A: The answer is simple. We have 0% control of the environment outside ourselves. Yet we have 100% control over the thoughts, words and actions that we create. We have the power to stop and create a 'gap' between stimuli and response. It is not our job to change someone else’s beliefs or actions. When we know that we are in control of how we choose to feel and respond in any given moment we understand that we do not need to 'make other people's stuff and disappointing life events about us.' It is not the pain we have experienced that crippled us. It is the choice to experience the pain that created our victimhood. In reality no-one and no event can harm us emotionally unless we choose to be harmed. Once we make the choice to stop taking on other people's weaknesses, or events outside of our control as our own emotional pain, we are well on the way to empowerment. This is the power of forgiveness and evolution. We rise from victim to survivor to thriver.

A: In reality there is only 'self'. As pure vibrational beings within a physical reality, we create all of our life from an 'inside-out' perspective. We have always done this. It is just that we are usually unaware that we are doing it (hence the need for self-mastery)! The only necessity is to trust the self. When we have established such a relationship with ourself, we know what we are creating and have healthy boundaries and self-honour on-line in harmonious and interdependent ways. We are no longer reliant on others to grant us what we are not granting or recognising within ourselves, yet we freely and lovingly share the trust and support we create with others. We make the journey from co-dependence to independence to interdependence. In order to establish whether or not you have created an inner foundation of trust ask yourself: "Do I uphold promises to myself? Do I treat myself with kindness, respect and integrity? Am I available for myself lovingly in times of need and support? Do I encourage, uplift and believe in me?" If you answer "No" or "Sometimes", it is fruitless to expect that life and other people will consistently supply you with these commodities. Your treatment of yourself is creating your external experiences. Life is a simple system: like attracts like.

A: I get asked this question often. If people want to be a healer and an intuitive this is the truth of who they are. Their yearning is their soul truth. Everyone is essentially psychic. We all have a right brain. Being psychic equates to trusting our feelings and intuitions and 'getting ourselves out of the way'. This means subduing our logical mind (ego) that is full of what if's, fears, doubts and questions and stop trying to control things on an intellectual level in order to start out-flowing our life from a deeper 'knowing' level. Time and time again I have recommended that individuals do self-mastery courses with me before undertaking psychic studies. To create the 'new' there is a necessity to get congruent with ‘what is’. This ‘what is’ is ourselves! When we have a healthy inner relationship and stop questioning ourselves we listen to and trust our inner wisdom, intuitions and knowings. Many individuals who have undertaken self-mastery first effortlessly flow into their inherent healing and psychic gifts and their path unfolds in a congruent manner before them. This explains why many gifted healers and psychics who haven’t learnt to trust and know themselves on an authentic level have had continual stop-start results in getting their vocation happening.

A: Many of us were not educated to understand that inner yearnings, longings and desires are real. Our soul language (our feelings) supply us the truth that our soul and the entire universe will conspire to bring us if we can just get our fears and doubts out of the way.
The Universe is an unlimited supply that knows no concept of 'lack'. It has all the resources and mechanisms to deliver our desires to us. When we start becoming the vibration of our desire we become a match with it, and our healthy empowered beliefs create the thoughts, words and actions that support our desires. We then flow with an inner knowing of what we are manifesting and trust the cues, synchronicities and encounters that are provided by the Universe as vital links to deliver these desires. It all unfolds naturally, excitingly and in an expansive manner. WE are the only people that know the concept of unworthiness and limitation. The Universal Energy system knows us as magnificent creators and will always grant us the reality of our soul desire, (it knows no other way to operate) WHEN we eliminate the self-defeating fear and unworthiness that sabotages us these desires becoming manifest. Every time we have a desire our creation is already made 'real' vibrationally. It simply requires our alignment to manifest it as physical reality. How many of us have a literal vibrational warehouse stored with all the good stuff we want and never actually live to experience it physically? It is our job to 'emotionally match' these desires. Then it all unfolds effortlessly.