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How To Manifest Your Desires
Creating Your Own Reality with the Law Of Attraction

by Melanie Tonia Evans

 

The new millennium of spirituality is taking the metaphysical and mainstream communities by storm. Much of this has come from the alignment of modern science and spirituality. Finally, scientists are confirming what spiritualists have inherently known for centuries - 'We Create Our Own Reality.'

The Movie 'The Secret', 'What the Bleep Do We Know' and many wonderful books on the market explain the powerful Laws of Attraction. Every single person within the cause and effect Universe is subject to these Laws that simply state "Whatever you put out is what you get back." Spiritualists and medium channellers from all over the globe are aware of the massive energy changes that are taking place on planet Earth. The Law of Attraction is gaining momentum fast. The physical reality of our belief systems, thoughts and actions are appearing at a much faster rate than what they ever have previously. Our Planet has in fact reached a time of moving out of dense vibrations into much faster and pure vibrations.

The very Law of Life is based on love, wellness, peace, oneness and harmony - everything else is in reality a falsity that is born from fear and false belief systems. Everything that is 'less than' is an illusion and is not in alignment with the truth of life.

Before learning about and applying the Laws of Life, I was like everyone else. There were certain aspects of me that I didn’t think were wrong, or simply didn’t want to acknowledge. None of us feel comfortable (until we learn the powerful lessons of humility and self-reflection) about looking at our ‘less than bits’ or exposing them to ourselves, let alone other people. I was walking through life not fully recognising the reasons why my life had gone the way it had, or how to change myself in order to live a different reality.

This was pretty astounding! After all I’d been engaged in personal development and metaphysics for over two decades. More than this, I’d also been a metaphysical teacher and healer for many years. I knew I’d provided personal growth, healing and liberation to other people, yet I wasstruggling to do this for myself. I thought I was ‘walking the talk’ but I wasn’t.

Like many people, I was outer focused. I was so busy giving of myself I’d never learnt to give to me. I thought I had it sorted. I knew about self-respect and self-love in theory yet I was hiding behind my work to cater for other people’s deservedness without acknowledging my own.

It wasn’t until I was confronted with the broken pieces of myself after the ending of a very painful relationship that were so extreme I was forced to my knees to confront the truth. From this place of rock bottom, I received information and knowingness whilst writing in my journal and confronting my deepest darkest places. I received ‘coincidental’ messages from other people, particular books and profound downloads of information that was inspired from a source much greater than myself. These ‘coincidences’ were essential because they kept me alive. I was walking a razor's edge of suicidal depression, crippling panic attacks and agoraphobia, and a total psychotic breakdown.

I truly know why I received the assistance I did. I was smashed down to a place where there was no-where to go. I was check-mated. I surrendered. I finally admitted to God there was something seriously wrong with me and pleaded for help. I fully embraced that I was dysfunctional and needed to heal. There was no-where to run, and there was no-where to hide. I didn’t even have the energy to wear a ‘mask’ any more. I was face-to-face with my tortured soul. The only way out was through, and I faced up to this truth. I decided I deserved to live and deserved to heal.

There’s not a day that I’m not eternally thankful for this experience. There’s not a day that I’m not grateful to my ex-partner for the abuse I received. I needed it. I’ve never felt so clear, empowered and in love with my life as a result of what I went through. Because of the incredible knowledge and processes I discovered to heal, I’m now extremely privileged in helping women and men regain their power, establish healthy self-love, purpose and self-worth. Because of my experience, other people now have the knowledge to stop their ongoing cycles of ‘less than’ experiences in regard to creating love, success and happiness.

This isn’t just about saying ‘pain makes us stronger and better people’. It’s so much more than that. The negative and painful situations in our life powerfully reflect to us our unhealed parts that have always held us back from experiencing perfect love, success and happiness. Without the painful messages, there’s little opportunity to make the liberating changes.

Some of us take time to get it. Certainly our conditioning hasn’t encouraged the understanding of vital truths. And these truths are: we’ve always been creating our own reality. The painful people and situations in our life are catalysts to show us the ‘less than’ realities we’ve manufactured. Our lives are orchestrated from our conscious and subconscious belief systems. Here’s the tricky part. Ninety percent of our belief systems are deeply unconscious. Ninety percent of our life is happening as a result of the fears and doubts we don’t want to acknowledge.

Like many people, I was so engaged in events outside of myself I had no idea my tormented feelings were screaming, “You’re way off track. This isn’t the experience your soul seeks.” I was trapped in a situation that was playing out and cementing my negative belief system, ‘I’m unlovable and unworthy’ and trying desperately to change it and fix it into something that would provide me with safe love. The truth of the matter was - I’d been playing this game for a long time (unconsciously) and didn’t understand the rules. Inevitably the game blew up in my face. Thank goodness it did.

Since undergoing my journey and living the pain of dysfunctional love as a total participant, my eyes have been opened to the enormous society problem of people who accept situations that are not the truth of ‘what they want’ and then try to fix it into something more applicable. This all relates to lowered levels of deservedness and a mistaken belief in limitation.

The separatism of ourselves is a global issue. It often becomes an almightily power struggle of how to feel safe. We all believe we have to try to control our lives to have enough love, success or security. Most people conceptually know they deserve better yet have no idea how to receive the safety and abundance they’re seeking. And of course - we think it’s up to life and other people to supply our happiness. Most people have never discovered the truth: establishing and creating your own happiness is no-one else’s job other than your own. Then the rest of the world and other people will follow.

It’s impossible for any person to be truly at peace unless they feel safe. As children we were all pure little sponges that naturally allowed close emotional connection. This is the pure language of our souls before establishing defense mechanisms. This connection is essential to develop healthy Emotional Intelligence.

Children who don’t receive emotional closeness and safety (consistent emotional responses) automatically develop the internal program, “I must be unlovable. It has to be my fault” and adopt defense mechanisms to guard against the powerful subconscious belief system, ‘I’m unlovable and will be emotionally abandoned.’ Nearly every individual, male and female, carries this love wound forward into their adult relationships and relationship of deservedness with life.

To get a relationship right with anyone else and life itself, first of all, requires getting it right with yourself. To do this - you have to completely change the way you previously thought about life.

We’ve all been the product of generations of emotional disconnection. Our outer-based religions taught us the answers to life lie outside of ourselves. We experienced a great deal of shame and guilt by absorbing belief systems such as ‘we’re unworthy sinners’ and have to act and be a certain thing to receive ‘God’s approval’ (man-made versions of conditional love). We were taught we probably didn’t deserve the things we wanted and weren’t good enough in God’s eyes to receive them. We were told that we had no right to know or believe our wisdom within. We were robbed of worthiness and deservedness.

These outer-based religions created entire societies and generations of co-dependents - losing all faith in ourselves, therefore seeking answers from the outside. Why on earth would we go to ourselves for happiness and the power to create our realities? After all weren’t we "no-good sinners"? Who’d want to retreat to an inner place of guilt and shame? Obviously these systems taught us that it’s up to conditions outside of us to provide solutions, directions and happiness.

This myth is logically ineffective and totally ridiculous!! We have no control over situations outside of ourselves. We can’t think for another person and have no ability or right to control their thinking or actions. Inevitably, basing our happiness on another person to provide it for us is self-defeating. Life and other people can’t live up to what we want them to be or do to keep us safe, secure and happy. This convoluted system of external-based expectations was always going to leave us angry, empty, grief stricken and damaged.

The most damaged, fearful and destructive people are the ones that are the most disconnected from themselves. These people are lost, anxious, fearful and angry. They are constantly trying to grab things outside of themselves to stop the inner pain and survive. They feel empty and are tortured with shame, pain and guilt. Why? Because they’ve lost themselves and have no idea that their true self is a glorious complete being whose natural state feels and knows peace, love and contentment.

Centuries of separatism DNA running through our systems dictates making conditions of life and other people’s behaviour about us. We’ve taken on beliefs and pain from external sources which have absolutely nothing to do with our True Selves. We hand our power over to these external sources and become victims.

We forget how to understand our emotions - which always let us know whether or not we’re living our Soul Truth - and focus on trying to change and fix situations and people to make us happy and safe. We keep ourselves attached to and enmeshed in pain.

Understandably we’ve struggled greatly to maintain a healthy relationship with ourselves, let alone with life. We’ve all suffered grave fears of intimacy and pain. How many of us think - ‘love and life equals pain?’ Our intimacy problems have come from not knowing how to be intimate with ourselves. Have we ever learnt how to truly love, accept and honour ourselves? Do we have belief systems and the knowledge to understand why this is so necessary?

Our religious systems for centuries have brain-washed us into thinking that our true self is tainted and sinful, and if left to its own devices without being controlled by external sources will automatically ‘do the wrong thing’.

The truth of the matter is: any individual, who works on self-development, takes responsibility for their life and gets in touch with the language of their soul automatically becomes a loving, expansive, healthy, happy and inspirational being who serves others in loving and inspiring ways. If we’re ‘at one’ with ourselves, we are complete and ‘at one’ with the world. There’s no need to take, harm, pillage or rob. It’s the separatism - the fear, shame and inner emptiness that’s been responsible for the destruction within individuals and relationships, and between races and opposing religions. To change the planet into Wholeness, individuals need to reclaim wholeness. This is where it begins and ends. This is the only way to create and sustain healthy and loving relationships.

The only person we have the right or the ability to control is ourselves. Boy does life become a powerful and amazing journey when we start doing this! All of a sudden we realise by changing and managing ourselves everything around us changes and becomes manageable effortlessly. All of a sudden life begins to deliver the truth of our Soul - love, success and happiness. Finally we are in control of our life, and finally we are safe. We become Divine Creators mastering our life.

When we learn about the ‘God within’, we know ourselves as gorgeous, all-loving and Divine beings. We acknowledge ourselves as a miracle and shamelessly love and embrace ourselves. We lose the guilt, fear and lack of deservedness. Then and only then, can we learn how to provide our own happiness. Then, and only then can we honour ourselves and make decisions and choices based on the truth of our soul which has always been love, success, happiness, glorious relationships and pure abundance.

The new world that’s emerging in the Aquarian Age is screaming out for internal acknowledgement and self-empowerment. Finally mainstream is exposed to the truth of life, and there are many messengers on the planet who are powerfully getting this message across. We now have the ability to end the disconnection from ourselves and end the pain.

The Course that Visionary facilitates, ‘Manifest Your Desires”, is a step-by-step process to truly understand your True Self, get empowered with belief systems that can change your disconnected DNA into one of wholeness, love and expansion, and give you the daily tools and processes to take back your power, and create the powerful realities and relationships you truly deserve. A follow-on course "Divine Connection & Meditation", shows you how to implement these techniques is also offered

In order to work through these processes you need to make a decision - and you need to make this decision now.

Do you want a better life? Do you deserve to experience love, success and happiness? While you do these processes you need to totally hold this belief. Are you ready to take the journey to turn it all around? Is this your truth?

Only you can make this decision. This journey is not going to be effective unless you have absolutely made this decision. It’s perfectly normal to have doubts such as: “I have no idea how to get there”, “I don’t know how I’m going to feel,” or, “Is this going to work?”

Don’t worry about the details of how it’s going to work. It’s a process and if you’ve decided to deserve the unfolding of your inner power - the entire Universe will rearrange itself to provide that opportunity. Your biggest and most powerful decision is to decide and never let go of that decision. Once you truly intend where you want to go - all of life will support you and take you there.

Declarations are powerful. Every time we make a decision with all our heart, everything starts opening up around us to heal, expand and liberate. Approach these declarations with a true feeling of deservedness, and know that by making these declarations to yourself, you are creating the map of your new life. Then take action…

Please consider taking this Course of Self-Empowerment.  Find out more about our life-changing course, Manifest Your Desires.

 

Copyright © 2007 Melanie Tonia Evans. All Rights Reserved.

 

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