The new millennium of spirituality is taking the metaphysical
and mainstream communities by storm. Much of this has come from
the alignment of modern science and spirituality. Finally, scientists
are confirming what spiritualists have inherently known for
centuries - 'We Create Our Own Reality.'
The Movie 'The Secret', 'What the Bleep Do We Know' and many
wonderful books on the market explain the powerful Laws of
Attraction. Every single person within the cause and effect
Universe is subject to these Laws that simply state "Whatever
you put out is what you get back." Spiritualists and
medium channellers from all over the globe are aware of the
massive energy changes that are taking place on planet Earth.
The Law of Attraction is gaining momentum fast. The physical
reality of our belief systems, thoughts and actions are appearing
at a much faster rate than what they ever have previously. Our
Planet has in fact reached a time of moving out of dense vibrations
into much faster and pure vibrations.
The very Law of Life is based on love, wellness, peace, oneness
and harmony - everything else is in reality a falsity that is
born from fear and false belief systems. Everything that
is 'less than' is an illusion and is not in alignment
with the truth of life.
Before learning about and applying the Laws
of Life, I was like everyone else. There were certain aspects
of me that I didn’t think were wrong, or simply didn’t
want to acknowledge. None of us feel comfortable (until we learn
the powerful lessons of humility and self-reflection) about
looking at our ‘less than bits’ or exposing them
to ourselves, let alone other people. I was walking through
life not fully recognising the reasons why my life had gone
the way it had, or how to change myself in order to live a different
reality.
This was pretty astounding! After all I’d been engaged
in personal development and metaphysics for over two decades.
More than this, I’d also been a metaphysical teacher and
healer for many years. I knew I’d provided personal growth,
healing and liberation to other people, yet I wasstruggling
to do this for myself. I thought I was ‘walking the talk’
but I wasn’t.
Like many people, I was outer focused. I was so busy
giving of myself I’d never learnt to give to me. I thought
I had it sorted. I knew about self-respect and self-love in
theory yet I was hiding behind my work to cater for other people’s
deservedness without acknowledging my own.
It wasn’t until I was confronted with the broken pieces
of myself after the ending of a very painful relationship that
were so extreme I was forced to my knees to confront the truth.
From this place of rock bottom, I received information and knowingness
whilst writing in my journal and confronting my deepest darkest
places. I received ‘coincidental’ messages from
other people, particular books and profound downloads of
information that was inspired from a source much greater
than myself. These ‘coincidences’ were essential
because they kept me alive. I was walking a razor's edge of
suicidal depression, crippling panic attacks and agoraphobia,
and a total psychotic breakdown.
I truly know why I received the assistance I did. I was smashed
down to a place where there was no-where to go. I was check-mated.
I surrendered. I finally admitted to God there was something
seriously wrong with me and pleaded for help. I fully embraced
that I was dysfunctional and needed to heal. There was no-where
to run, and there was no-where to hide. I didn’t even
have the energy to wear a ‘mask’ any more. I was
face-to-face with my tortured soul. The only way out was through,
and I faced up to this truth. I decided I deserved
to live and deserved to heal.
There’s not a day that I’m not eternally thankful
for this experience. There’s not a day that I’m
not grateful to my ex-partner for the abuse I received. I
needed it. I’ve never felt so clear, empowered and
in love with my life as a result of what I went through. Because
of the incredible knowledge and processes I discovered to heal,
I’m now extremely privileged in helping women and men
regain their power, establish healthy self-love, purpose and
self-worth. Because of my experience, other people now have
the knowledge to stop their ongoing cycles of ‘less than’
experiences in regard to creating love, success and happiness.
This isn’t just about saying ‘pain makes us stronger
and better people’. It’s so much more than
that. The negative and painful situations in our life powerfully
reflect to us our unhealed parts that have always held us
back from experiencing perfect love, success and happiness.
Without the painful messages, there’s little opportunity
to make the liberating changes.
Some of us take time to get it. Certainly our conditioning
hasn’t encouraged the understanding of vital truths. And
these truths are: we’ve always been creating our own reality.
The painful people and situations in our life are catalysts
to show us the ‘less than’ realities we’ve
manufactured. Our lives are orchestrated from our conscious
and subconscious belief systems. Here’s the tricky part.
Ninety percent of our belief systems are deeply unconscious.
Ninety percent of our life is happening as a result of the
fears and doubts we don’t want to acknowledge.
Like many people, I was so engaged in events outside of myself
I had no idea my tormented feelings were screaming, “You’re
way off track. This isn’t the experience your soul seeks.”
I was trapped in a situation that was playing out and cementing
my negative belief system, ‘I’m unlovable and unworthy’
and trying desperately to change it and fix it into something
that would provide me with safe love. The truth of the matter
was - I’d been playing this game for a long time (unconsciously)
and didn’t understand the rules. Inevitably the game blew
up in my face. Thank goodness it did.
Since undergoing my journey and living the pain of dysfunctional
love as a total participant, my eyes have been opened to the
enormous society problem of people who accept situations that
are not the truth of ‘what they want’ and then try
to fix it into something more applicable. This all relates to
lowered levels of deservedness and a mistaken belief in limitation.
The separatism of ourselves is a global issue. It often becomes
an almightily power struggle of how to feel safe. We
all believe we have to try to control our lives to have enough
love, success or security. Most people conceptually know they
deserve better yet have no idea how to receive the safety and
abundance they’re seeking. And of course - we think it’s
up to life and other people to supply our happiness. Most people
have never discovered the truth: establishing and creating your
own happiness is no-one else’s job other than your own.
Then the rest of the world and other people will follow.
It’s impossible for any person to be truly at peace unless
they feel safe. As children we were all pure little sponges
that naturally allowed close emotional connection. This is the
pure language of our souls before establishing defense mechanisms.
This connection is essential to develop healthy Emotional Intelligence.
Children who don’t receive emotional closeness and safety
(consistent emotional responses) automatically develop the internal
program, “I must be unlovable. It has to be my fault”
and adopt defense mechanisms to guard against the powerful subconscious
belief system, ‘I’m unlovable and will be emotionally
abandoned.’ Nearly every individual, male and female,
carries this love wound forward into their adult relationships
and relationship of deservedness with life.
To get a relationship right with anyone else and life itself,
first of all, requires getting it right with yourself. To do
this - you have to completely change the way you previously
thought about life.
We’ve all been the product of generations of emotional
disconnection. Our outer-based religions taught us the answers
to life lie outside of ourselves. We experienced a great deal
of shame and guilt by absorbing belief systems such as ‘we’re
unworthy sinners’ and have to act and be a certain thing
to receive ‘God’s approval’ (man-made versions
of conditional love). We were taught we probably didn’t
deserve the things we wanted and weren’t good enough in
God’s eyes to receive them. We were told that we had no
right to know or believe our wisdom within. We were robbed of
worthiness and deservedness.
These outer-based religions created entire societies and generations
of co-dependents - losing all faith in ourselves, therefore
seeking answers from the outside. Why on earth would we go to
ourselves for happiness and the power to create our realities?
After all weren’t we "no-good sinners"? Who’d
want to retreat to an inner place of guilt and shame? Obviously
these systems taught us that it’s up to conditions outside
of us to provide solutions, directions and happiness.
This myth is logically ineffective and totally ridiculous!!
We have no control over situations outside of ourselves. We
can’t think for another person and have no ability or
right to control their thinking or actions. Inevitably, basing
our happiness on another person to provide it for us is self-defeating.
Life and other people can’t live up to what we want them
to be or do to keep us safe, secure and happy. This convoluted
system of external-based expectations was always going to leave
us angry, empty, grief stricken and damaged.
The most damaged, fearful and destructive people are the ones
that are the most disconnected from themselves. These people
are lost, anxious, fearful and angry. They are constantly trying
to grab things outside of themselves to stop the inner pain
and survive. They feel empty and are tortured with shame, pain
and guilt. Why? Because they’ve lost themselves
and have no idea that their true self is a glorious complete
being whose natural state feels and knows peace, love and contentment.
Centuries of separatism DNA running through our systems dictates
making conditions of life and other people’s behaviour
about us. We’ve taken on beliefs and pain from
external sources which have absolutely nothing to do with our
True Selves. We hand our power over to these external sources
and become victims.
We forget how to understand our emotions - which always let
us know whether or not we’re living our Soul Truth - and
focus on trying to change and fix situations and people to make
us happy and safe. We keep ourselves attached to and enmeshed
in pain.
Understandably we’ve struggled greatly to maintain a
healthy relationship with ourselves, let alone with life. We’ve
all suffered grave fears of intimacy and pain. How many of us
think - ‘love and life equals pain?’ Our intimacy
problems have come from not knowing how to be intimate with
ourselves. Have we ever learnt how to truly love, accept and
honour ourselves? Do we have belief systems and the knowledge
to understand why this is so necessary?
Our religious systems for centuries have brain-washed us into
thinking that our true self is tainted and sinful, and if left
to its own devices without being controlled by external sources
will automatically ‘do the wrong thing’.
The truth of the matter is: any individual, who works on
self-development, takes responsibility for their life and gets
in touch with the language of their soul automatically
becomes a loving, expansive, healthy, happy and inspirational
being who serves others in loving and inspiring ways. If
we’re ‘at one’ with ourselves, we are complete
and ‘at one’ with the world. There’s no need
to take, harm, pillage or rob. It’s the separatism - the
fear, shame and inner emptiness that’s been responsible
for the destruction within individuals and relationships,
and between races and opposing religions. To change the planet
into Wholeness, individuals need to reclaim wholeness.
This is where it begins and ends. This is the only way
to create and sustain healthy and loving relationships.
The only person we have the right or the ability
to control is ourselves. Boy does life become a powerful and
amazing journey when we start doing this! All of a sudden we
realise by changing and managing ourselves everything around
us changes and becomes manageable effortlessly. All of
a sudden life begins to deliver the truth of our Soul - love,
success and happiness. Finally we are in control of our life,
and finally we are safe. We become Divine Creators mastering
our life.
When we learn about the ‘God within’, we know ourselves
as gorgeous, all-loving and Divine beings. We acknowledge ourselves
as a miracle and shamelessly love and embrace ourselves.
We lose the guilt, fear and lack of deservedness. Then and only
then, can we learn how to provide our own happiness. Then, and
only then can we honour ourselves and make decisions and choices
based on the truth of our soul which has always been
love, success, happiness, glorious relationships and pure abundance.
The new world that’s emerging in the Aquarian Age is
screaming out for internal acknowledgement and self-empowerment.
Finally mainstream is exposed to the truth of life,
and there are many messengers on the planet who are powerfully
getting this message across. We now have the ability
to end the disconnection from ourselves and end the pain.
The Course that Visionary facilitates, ‘Manifest
Your Desires”, is a step-by-step process to truly
understand your True Self, get empowered with belief systems
that can change your disconnected DNA into one of wholeness,
love and expansion, and give you the daily tools and processes
to take back your power, and create the powerful realities and
relationships you truly deserve. A follow-on course "Divine
Connection & Meditation", shows you how to implement
these techniques is also offered
In order to work through these processes you need to make a
decision - and you need to make this decision now.
Do you want a better life? Do you deserve to experience
love, success and happiness? While you do these processes
you need to totally hold this belief. Are you ready to take
the journey to turn it all around? Is this your truth?
Only you can make this decision. This journey is not going
to be effective unless you have absolutely made this decision.
It’s perfectly normal to have doubts such as: “I
have no idea how to get there”, “I don’t know
how I’m going to feel,” or, “Is this going
to work?”
Don’t worry about the details of how it’s going
to work. It’s a process and if you’ve decided to
deserve the unfolding of your inner power - the entire Universe
will rearrange itself to provide that opportunity. Your biggest
and most powerful decision is to decide and never
let go of that decision. Once you truly intend where you want
to go - all of life will support you and take you there.
Declarations are powerful. Every time we make a decision
with all our heart, everything starts opening up around
us to heal, expand and liberate. Approach these declarations
with a true feeling of deservedness, and know that by making
these declarations to yourself, you are creating the map of
your new life. Then take action…
Please consider taking this Course of Self-Empowerment.
Find out more about our life-changing course, Manifest
Your Desires.
Copyright
© 2007 Melanie Tonia Evans. All
Rights Reserved.
Article Reproduction
All articles on this site is copyright Melanie
Tonia Evans, and may not be reprinted on another
website or any other media without explicit
written permission. If you wish to reproduce
any articles, please email
Melanie for prior permission. See Terms
of Use.
Articles Home
| Visionary Home